Everyone is welcome to have a positive and interesting conversation with me. We all are addicted something that takes away the pain, We all need a shoulder to cry , An Ear to listen and a HOPE!I would like to help by listening to you and just feel free and open infront of me ....How often have these conversations lead to bad results, and even caused people to fall in love, and have led some to do things that are even more serious than that.
From Fataawa al-Mar’ah, compiled by Muhammad al-Musnad, p. Undoubtedly correspondence via chat rooms is more dangerous than correspondence by mail, but both are bad.
Is it really SIN to talk to a brother in writing ?? That is because talking to men may turn into chat which usually leads temptation.
Hence it is essential to be strict and avoid that, seeking the pleasure of Allaah and fearing His punishment.
What has happened to you is the best testimonial to the truth of what we are saying, because it is difficult for a man to ask these personal questions of a believing woman, unless he uses these means that are being used in a bad way. This is safer for your religious commitment and purer for your heart.
You should note that marriage to a righteous man is a blessing from Allaah, and a blessing cannot be acquired by means of sin.