The whole idea for these dates is to bond with your spouse again and to prove to both of you that you can get a long, have fun together, feel the spark again, and reconnect.
You make this less likely if you insist on diving into your problems when the marriage is already struggling.
You want to laugh and feel very alive during this experience. Wives in particular usually ask if it’s a good idea to limit sex when you’re separated.
Try things that you haven’t done together before and always keep everything very light hearted. The thought process behind this is that if she has sex with her husband when he’s not living with her, then what is his incentive to come back home?
I recently heard from a wife who asked the questions that most people want to know.
She said, in part: “are there any guidelines about dating my husband while we’re separated?
But, many couples aren’t quite sure about how to approach this.
If it’s possible, it’s a good idea to define how often you’re going to get together beforehand.
By: Leslie Cane: I often hear from people who are separated and trying to save their marriages.
One recurring theme that often comes up is dating your spouse while separated.
As a result, hurt feelings and resentment may follow.
I would suggest that if you’re going to have sex while you are separated, make sure that you are doing so because you want to express and share your feelings at the time, and not as a way to lure your spouse back or to play emotional games.